You, Me and Us

Imagine drawing three circles on a paper entitled “My Relationship” or “My Previous Relationships.”  The three circles represent how much of the relationship consists of “me” (my needs, wants, desires, moods, demands, etc.) “you” (your moods, wishes, dreams, demands, needs, etc.) and “us” (what serves our relationship, our commitment, our future, our connection.) How much […]

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Spiritual Intimacy Requires a Deep Connection

Dear Neil:  Would you discuss the question of spiritual intimacy.  What is it?  How do you attain it?  Why don’t more people have it?  We are two friends with a bet.  One of us says that, although rare, it’s attainable.  The other says it doesn’t exist.  Your answer will decide who buys dinner. QuestioningLongmont, Colorado […]

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