What Women Really Want
Young King Arthur was ambushed and imprisoned by the monarch of a neighboring kingdom. The monarch could have killed him but was moved by Arthur’s youth and ideals. So, the monarch offered him his freedom, as long as he could […]
Read MoreShould I Allow My Boyfriend to Experience Another Woman?
Dear Neil: My boyfriend and I have been together over three years. During a break in our relationship, I had a one-night stand. I told him about it, and now he is very jealous because he didn’t get the opportunity […]
Read MoreWhy Did Woman Reject Open-Hearted Man?
Dear Neil: Women claim to want a man who is open-hearted and comfortable with intimacy—a man who can show his more vulnerable emotions. But when I have offered my heart and vulnerability to a woman, I have most frequently been […]
Read MoreWhat Gives Us Power Also Makes Us Feel Powerless
Note: This is the second of a two-part series. The irony of power is that both genders see themselves as powerless in exactly the area in which the other gender sees them as powerful. A woman sees the inadequacy of […]
Read MoreWhere Are All The Good Men?
Note: This is the first of a two-part series. Dear Neil: I am an attractive, successful, affluent woman in my forties, and I am having a hard time finding men who I might consider marrying. Why is there such a […]
Read More“Rules” For Women
Dear Neil: Since reading your column concerning rules for male partners that appeared in print awhile back, I would like to know if you could print a set of rules for female partners? HopefulJakarta, Indonesia Dear Hopeful: Actually the list […]
Read MoreA Man’s Work Helps to Define His Worth
But He Needs to be Careful to Not Overdo It Note: This is the third of a three-part series. More often than not, work defines a man’s worth to himself and to the world. To work means you’re a man, […]
Read More“Real Men” Can Be Hard To Relate To
EDITOR’S NOTE: THIS IS THE SECOND OF A THREE-PART SERIES The way men love and what they need in a relationship are different and often the opposite of what women need. Because of their conditioning, many men have learned to […]
Read MoreWhy Men Are The Way They Are
EDITOR’S NOTE: THIS IS FIRST OF A THREE-PART SERIES. Does this man sound familiar? “John” is educated, affluent and successful. He is admired by his co-workers and has a stringent work ethic. He works well over 40 hours a week […]
Read MoreShould a Working Woman Also be Responsible for the Domestic Chores?
Dear Neil: I would like to see you address the issue of sharing household responsibilities in two-earner households. My husband and I have been married for 16 years. Except for a couple of years I took off when our kids […]
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