Sabotaging the Relationship You Want

Note: This is the second of a two-part series. Click here for part one Do you have a pattern of choosing an emotionally unavailable intimate partner—a person exceedingly difficult to get close to, someone who is emotionally protected, insulated or standoffish—while rejecting the people who are available, caring, responsive and who are easy to be […]

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Acting Helpless and In Need of Rescue Does Not Make For a Happy Relationship

Note: This is the second of a two-part series. The opposite of mothering a grown man is to act like a little girl around him. Little girls get lots of attention for being sweet, cute and vulnerable. As a grown woman, are you using little girl tactics as a way to attract or to keep […]

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Seven Deadly Relationship Sins

Here is a list of seven deadly relationship sins: Being too detached, withdrawn, removed, guarded or disengaged.   Not talking or revealing your feelings.  Not asking about your partner’s feelings—or not taking an interest in those feelings once they are shared.  Not making your relationship a top priority.  Not going all out and giving your very […]

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