Unlock Barriers to Giving and Receiving Love

Dear Neil:  My wife and I have been reading your recent three-part series about how people block themselves from giving and receiving love.  It has spoken closely to our situation.  At conception, my wife was unwanted by her mother.  This translated to her forming strong and mystifying barriers to me.  These barriers have refused all […]

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“I’m Very Independent” Often Relates to Low Trust

Note: this is the first of a two-part series. Dear Neil:  What does it mean when my girlfriend says she is very independent, fears being controlled and doesn’t trust easily?  Isn’t the idea of being in an adult relationship for both people to trust, rely on and depend on each other? Feeling Pushed Away in Westminster, Colorado […]

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